If you are close we will do coffee and go from there. We can just start off by seeing each other for coffee or drinks because i don't want anyone spending a ton of money on me especially if old fart i meet you and really don't like you and vice versa. Hubby will be present and also gets to play fair is fair right. A negative attitude never helps an already dismal situation.
I beleive in a honest days work for the same in return new england work ethic i beleive in being healthy.